I sympathize with someone who is experiencing a certain situation. How would you define friendship? Does friendship mean brushing off your friend every chance that you get? Does friendship mean chosing to drive long distances to meet certain 'friends' and chosing NOT to drive long distances unless there's an alterior motive? Does friendship mean answering the phone (which has caller ID BTW) only if you feel like answering it? Does friendship mean trying to win an argument all the time with out even making sense for the sake of winning (or for the sake of a big time ego trip) or until the other person backs down, swallows her pride, and gives up? Does friendship mean constantly stabbing a friend in the back or taking advantage? Does friendship mean being disloyal and putting one down? Or maybe tact is not intact! YOU tell me what friendship means.